STOP WAITING FOR CLOSURE FROM YOUR EX

Hello beautiful human!

If you’re honest with yourself, is there a part of you still waiting for closure from your ex?
Maybe you’re hoping they’ll apologise for how deeply they hurt you.
Maybe you want them to beg for you back so you can be the one to walk away this time.
Or maybe you just want the simple decency of an explanation.

You’re completely valid for feeling that way.
But the truth is this: holding on to the hope that your ex will give you closure is exactly what keeps you stuck in the past and unable to fully move forward.

The closure you’re seeking does not come from them.
It comes from within you.

Closure comes when you stop checking their social media.
Closure comes when you stop fantasising about bumping into them.
Closure comes when you stop hoping they’ll ask for you back.
Closure comes when you can genuinely wish them well — even if that means wishing them well with someone else.
Closure comes when you can appreciate what the relationship gave you, while also feeling grateful that it ended.

In other words: closure is an inside job.
It doesn’t arrive through an external event.
It comes from your decision to close that chapter, to no longer let them have power over your emotions, your choices, or your heart.

This takes time. It doesn’t happen overnight.
But the power to create that shift is, and always has been, yours.

And my hope is that you allow this inner closure to propel you forward.
To rise from the ashes of the breakup.
To recognise that everything that fell apart did so for your highest good.

With Love,
Monica @ True Connection
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